Big Bad Wolf
I realise that kids learn language in blocks. What I'm trying to say is that the Girl doesn't know that bouche (mouth) is feminine & thus you would say "la bouche", she knows it as "labouche" - it's one word to her. Just like "grand mechant loup" which is big bad wolf in French. The other day she was trying to tell me that there is a small one in her room - she said "petit grandmechantloup". Even though I broke down the 3 words & explained it to her & she knows very well the difference between small & big, she still insists on calling it "petit grandmechantloup".

2 choices
I'm not a big fan of offering a lot of choices for a fussy toddler. I do understand that she's at the stage when she's frustrated & needs to feel like she has some control, so occasionally I'll offer 2 options. Either "the white or the pink T-shirt", "one chocolate or nothing, not 2", "put on your seat belt or we're not going anywhere"....The other day, I caught her plunging her face down to her plate to eat her noodles. At which point I yelled at her "Stop eating like a dog". She turned to me very cheekily & said "2 choices maman, I eat like a dog or I eat with my hands (which is also not allowed)".
French faux pas
There are a couple of things my French family will never understand about me.
1. Barefoot Contessa
I hate wearing socks or shoes at home. The first thing I do when I step into the house is to kick off my shoes. It's the Singaporean in me. It also doesn't help that our floor is heated so even in winter, I don't wear socks. The French finds it very strange that I walk around barefooted. Unfortunately the Girl has also picked up this "bad habit" from me.
I don't insist that anybody remove their shoes when they enter our house & for appearance sake, I will put on shoes when we have a dinner party at home. Likewise, I don't remove my shoes when I'm at someone else's house. But at home, I just don't like having anything on my feet.
And of course, more than a few people have commented on the line up of our shoes at the entrance.
2. Having a savoury tooth
The French don't believe in savoury breakfast. Bacon & eggs are never eaten in the morning. Their idea of breakfast is cereal, toast with jam, nutella - anything sweet & nothing savoury. X mother finds it rather amusing that I have a ham sandwich for breakfast but will nonetheless prepares that for me when I stay over. Can you imagine her surprise if I were to have lor pak ko or roti prata or porridge early in the morning ?
Update :
Celetial Fundie just commented that she has an entire blog committed to Shoes Off at the Door, Please. Wow I didn't realise that there is such commitment to this cause. So do you insist on guests removing shoes when they enter ?
There are a couple of things my French family will never understand about me.
1. Barefoot Contessa
I hate wearing socks or shoes at home. The first thing I do when I step into the house is to kick off my shoes. It's the Singaporean in me. It also doesn't help that our floor is heated so even in winter, I don't wear socks. The French finds it very strange that I walk around barefooted. Unfortunately the Girl has also picked up this "bad habit" from me.
I don't insist that anybody remove their shoes when they enter our house & for appearance sake, I will put on shoes when we have a dinner party at home. Likewise, I don't remove my shoes when I'm at someone else's house. But at home, I just don't like having anything on my feet.
And of course, more than a few people have commented on the line up of our shoes at the entrance.
2. Having a savoury tooth
The French don't believe in savoury breakfast. Bacon & eggs are never eaten in the morning. Their idea of breakfast is cereal, toast with jam, nutella - anything sweet & nothing savoury. X mother finds it rather amusing that I have a ham sandwich for breakfast but will nonetheless prepares that for me when I stay over. Can you imagine her surprise if I were to have lor pak ko or roti prata or porridge early in the morning ?
Update :
Celetial Fundie just commented that she has an entire blog committed to Shoes Off at the Door, Please. Wow I didn't realise that there is such commitment to this cause. So do you insist on guests removing shoes when they enter ?